Consultations
Hello and welcome! My name is Alexandria Torres, also known as "Lexi."
Click here or scroll down for free handouts related to the subjects I teach.
I am offering consultations for the first time to people interested in learning about or enhancing their self-care. Since I'm in the midst of solidifying my approach, I am interested in speaking to clients who are adventurous enough to help me experiment! If you would like to become one of my "practice" clients at no charge, feel free to complete a request form on the Contact page.
Please Note:
Consultation services are not considered therapeutic treatment. If I observe a client as potentially benefiting from psychotherapy in place of (or in addition to) consulting, I will communicate that accordingly.
Experience
For the past 20 years, I have helped people change thoughts and behavior through my work as a psychotherapist. I use similar concepts and tools as a consultant. My main strength lies in the ability to help people work with their thoughts in order to feel more positive about themselves and about their life circumstances.
Currently taking new clients? Yes (on a "practice" basis)
To Request an Initial Session Back to top
Please complete the "Request for Consultation" form on the Contact page.
Fees for Service (to be determined)
Intake Session (new clients): 60 to 90 minutes
Individual Sessions (after initial): 60 minutes
- During the "practice period," new clients will be seen free of charge.
- After the intake (first) session, clients are considered as "established" if they choose to return for additional help.
- Session time goes by quickly! For new clients, I include an extra 15-30 minutes to create space for introductions and for sharing of background information (if desired). We can also devote the entire time to interventions and problem-solving.
Payment Method
Venmo, CashApp, PayPal, Zelle
Payment in full is required prior to each session.
Scheduling
Consultation clients choose the number and frequency of their sessions. After you submit an initial request form (located on the Contact page), I will reach out to you by email to discuss scheduling options. Established clients are free to contact me directly or may complete a form.
My general availability is: Tuesday 10am to 7pm and Wednesday through Friday 9am to 2:30pm. If you would like to view specific openings, click here to see available weekly time slots on the Psychotherapy page.
My INTERACTION STYLE Back to top
I give clients:
~ Respect, kindness, empathy, and compassion.
~ Clear and transparent communication.
~ Partnership versus "telling you what to do."
~ Directness without being abrupt or confrontational.
~ Authenticity (e.g., I will not say things that I "don't mean" or suggest ideas that I would not try myself).
*I do tend to use a fair amount of humor (and sarcasm, at times) in my work with others, although I know when to "tone it down" during more serious discussions. Whenever possible, I like to keep things light-hearted, encouraging, and cheerful.
In consultation sessions, we can explore ideas such as: Back to top
~ Developing insights, such as: "What is it that I want, what works for me, what feels right to me?"
~ Defining or better understanding my personal version of self-care.
~ Changing thoughts and behavior to create new positive thought patterns.
~ Identifying affirmations to positively motivate and to kindly support myself when making changes.
Self-Care Resources
Click on a link to go to the website or to download the pdf or Microsoft Word document (denoted in parentheses).
You can also download the list in the Handouts section below.
Time Limited Self-Care Activities (pdf)
Fun Activities Catalogue - 365 ideas (pdf)
The Big List of Self-Care Activities (Microsoft Word Document)
Ideas for Self-Nurturing - 101 ideas (pdf)
100 Ways to Relieve Stress and Self-Care (pdf)
101 Ways to Cope with Stress (web page) Scroll past the introduction for ideas.
*Please note that lexi.com and its owner share these lists to help people identify ideas for self-care. The lists are not intended to be construed as or to represent medical care or therapeutic treatment of any kind. Always check with your personal medical and mental health care providers for guidance before beginning any new activities.
**These lists were obtained online and links were current as of 11/28/2025.